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Don’t Hire Me If You Hate Fun

19/08/2025 Posted by Martin Bamford Ideas, Photography

Let me be honest with you right from the start. I’m not the right photographer for everyone. And I’m fine with that.

Some people want stiff, formal portraits. They want to stand in silence, stare awkwardly into the lens, and leave the shoot feeling like they have just sat their A-levels again.

If that sounds like your ideal experience, you should probably close this tab and find someone else.

I believe photography should be fun. Not silly. Not unprofessional. But genuinely enjoyable.

Yes, I take my work seriously. I’ve invested years in learning how to use light, angles, and editing tools. I’ve got the kit, the training, and the experience.

But I also know this: if you’re not having a good time, your photos will never be as good as they could be.

The Serious Reason Behind Having Fun

You might think fun is just a bonus. Something nice if it happens, but not really the point. I would argue the opposite. Fun is essential.

Most of the people I photograph aren’t models. They’re not actors. They don’t spend their days in front of the camera. They’re real people. And real people often feel nervous, awkward, or even terrified about having their photo taken.

That’s perfectly normal. But it’s my job to change that. To create an environment where you feel safe to be yourself. Where you forget, even for a moment, that there’s a lens pointing at you.

And the best way to do that is to make it fun.

When you’re laughing, when you’re relaxed, when you’re actually enjoying yourself, that’s when we get the real you. Not the stiff, posed version. The one your friends and family recognise. The one your clients will trust.

What Fun Actually Looks Like on a Shoot

Let’s clear something up. When I say “fun”, I don’t mean cheesy props or forced laughter. I mean connection. I mean conversation. I mean loosening up and letting go of that inner critic that tells you you’re not photogenic.

I’ll chat to you throughout the shoot. I’ll ask you random questions. I’ll probably tell some terrible jokes.

I’ll give you just enough direction so you know what to do with your hands, but not so much that you feel like a mannequin.

Sometimes we’ll take a walk. Sometimes we’ll sit and talk before we even start shooting. Sometimes I’ll get you to move around or try something a bit daft. Not because I’m trying to distract you, but because I’m trying to bring out your natural expression, your energy, your spark.

And it works. I’ve photographed hundreds of people who started off the shoot telling me they hate having their photo taken. By the end, they’re asking when they can do it again.

It’s Not About Being Loud or Over the Top

I’m not the life of the party. I don’t turn every shoot into a performance. What I aim for is something much more meaningful.

It’s about making space for your personality to come through. If you’re quiet and thoughtful, we’ll go at your pace. If you’re bubbly and bold, we’ll embrace that too. The point is, you don’t have to pretend. You get to show up as you are.

Fun, in this context, just means letting go of pressure. It means working together in a way that feels natural. It means not taking yourself too seriously, while still getting serious results.

Why It Matters for Portraits, Branding and Events

Whether you’re booking a headshot, a full branding shoot, or event photography, that same principle holds true.

For portraits, it helps you come across as approachable and confident.

For branding, it builds trust with your audience, because people connect with real human faces far more than logos or stock imagery.

And for events, it helps capture the energy of the day, not just who was there but how it felt.

If you want photography that’s cold, clinical, and emotionally flat, you won’t find it here.

However, if you want images that reflect your personality, relaxed, authentic, and confident, then we’re probably a great match.

Let’s Not Take Ourselves Too Seriously

We live in a world where everyone’s trying to look perfect. Poses are rehearsed. Smiles are filtered. The fun gets squeezed out of everything.

I don’t want to be part of that. I want to help you show up as your best, most human self. And that means keeping things light, being real, and yes, having fun.

So if you’re on the fence about booking a shoot because you’ve always hated the process, I’d love to change your mind.

Come along, bring your nerves, bring your weird laugh, bring your real self. I’ll bring the camera and a few bad jokes. And together, we’ll make something great.

Unless you hate fun.

In which case, please don’t hire me.

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